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 STRUGGLING WITH A BASIC NEED: SELF ESTEEM

I’m struggling to find the road to emotional maturity and make peace with myself.  I seek a sense of my own intrinsic value, self respect, confidence in my ability to handle life and being able to enjoy it in relaxed fashion.  I want to leave behind what’s inside me too often now: feeling unworthy, that I can’t cope, that I’m a failure; being too concerned about what others think of me; anxiety, fear, and self doubt. When I’m really down, on myself and others, it seems like a battle rages inside. (Note: Some lose the battle, descending into a hell of bitterness / self hatred. Others compensate for unworthiness by excessively self sacrificing / doing things for others -- often full of sorrow for themselves.  A few find the strength to change and grow.)

Related Words, Beliefs, Background -- 40 entries

More to Explore -- Worldview Theme #41: Struggling  With A Basic  Need: Self  Esteem

Self Esteem (from online encyclopedia)
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs  (from online encyclopedia)
Self Concept (from online encyclopedia)
Psychotherapy (from online encyclopedia)
Defense Mechanisms (from online encyclopedia)
The Costs and Causes of Low Self Esteem
Emotional Maturity (list of characteristics of a person who has achieved true adulthood)
Self Esteem (from Performance Unlimited website)
Vision--Changing the Self in Self Esteem
Anxiety (from online encyclopedia)
Clinical Depression (from online encyclopedia)
Happiness, Depression, and Self Concept
National Association for Self Esteem
Self Esteem Information (from Self Growth website)
Building Self Esteem--A Self Help Guide (online booklet from The National Mental Health Information Center)
Building Self Esteem (from More Self Esteem website)
Raising Self Esteem (from Best Self Esteem website)
Psychology Today Magazine (magazine which claims it is "here to help")
When Sadness is a Good Thing, by John Cloud (August 27, 2007 Time article)
Essays: Self Esteem 
My Declaration of Self Esteem, by Virginia Satir (inspiring poem)
Lack of Self Confidence (a Buddhist perspective)
The Problem With Self Esteem (a Catholic Educator's View)
Near Death Experiences and Hell (psychological research)
"Are Heaven and Hell Only a State of Mind?" (forum offering various responses to this question)
Low Self Esteem (a Hindu perspective)
Self Actualization (from Performance Unlimited website)
quotes about self respect

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